What is Trauma?
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What is Trauma?

Survivors.org defines trauma as both: Trauma is both a specific experience and our emotional experiences that arise after that event.  Survivors often report that when they discuss their trauma, others may try to tell them that their experience wasn’t “bad enough” to be considered traumatic. In reality, trauma is personal. Something that may overwhelm one…

Empowering Children: Nurturing Boundaries Through Understanding Good Touch and Bad Touch

Empowering Children: Nurturing Boundaries Through Understanding Good Touch and Bad Touch

Understanding the concepts of good touch vs. bad touch is crucial for empowering children to establish boundaries and protect themselves from abuse. Good touch 1 refers to physical contact that feels safe, pleasant, and comfortable. Bad touch 1 is any type of touch that makes a child feel uneasy, confused, uncomfortable, or unsafe. Methods of…

Verbal Abuse

Verbal Abuse

Abuse is the act of causing harm or distress, in an attempt to exert control, especially for one’s own advantage or pleasure.Verbal abuse is when someone uses language and/or a communication style that causes harm or is perceived as harmful. Verbal abuse doesn’t need to involve yelling or speaking in an aggressive tone, though it…

Physical Abuse

Physical Abuse

Abuse is the act of causing harm or distress, in an attempt to exert control, especially for one’s own advantage or pleasure. Physical abuse is when someone causes any intentional physical harm to someone else or acts in physically threatening ways. 42% of men and women have experienced physical abuse by an intimate partner in…

Why Don’t People Leave Abusive Relationships?

Why Don’t People Leave Abusive Relationships?

Far too often, survivors of domestic and/or intimate partner violence hear some variation of the phrase, “Why Didn’t You Leave?” Asking such a question, whether intentional or not, places the blame on the victim-survivor for not leaving sooner, rather than on the perpetrator for being abusive in the first place, which is where it belongs….